Some of us can answer without hesitation, "I am!" Others aren't so sure. Cocaine Anonymous believes that no one can decide for another whether he or she is addicted. One thing is sure, though; every single one of us has denied being an addict. For months, for years, we who now freely admit that we are cocaine addicts thought that we could control cocaine, when in fact it was controlling us.

We never left the house without using first. We didn't make love without using. We didn't talk on the phone without coke. We couldn't fall asleep, sometimes it seemed we couldn't even breathe without cocaine. We tried changing jobs, apartments, cities, lovers -- believing that our lives were being screwed up by circumstances, places, people. Perhaps we saw a cocaine friend die of  respiratory arrest, and still we went on using! But eventually we had to face facts. We had to admit that cocaine was a serious problem in our lives, that we were addicts.

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Some of us hit a physical bottom.  It may have been anything from a nosebleed which frightened us, to sexual impotence, to loss of sensation in or temporary paralysis of a limb, to a loss of consciousness and a trip to an emergency room, to a cocaine-induced stroke that left us disabled. Maybe it was finally our gaunt reflection in the mirror.

Others of us hit an emotional or spiritual bottom.  The good times were gone, the coke life was over.  No matter how much we used, we never again achieved elation, only a temporary release from the depression of coming down, and often, not even that.  We suffered violent mood swings.  Perhaps we awoke to our predicament after threatening or actually harming a loved one, desperately demanding imagined hidden money.  We were overcome by feelings of alienation from friends, loved ones, parents, children, society, from the sky, from everything wholesome.  Even the dealer we thought was our friend turned into a stranger when we went to him without money.  Perhaps we awoke in dread of the isolation we had created for ourselves; using alone, suffocated by our self-centered fear and our paranoia.  We were spiritually and emotionally deadened. Perhaps we thought of suicide, or tried it.

Stilt others of us reached a different sort of bottom when our spending and lying cost us our jobs, credit, and possessions.  Some of us reached the point that we couldn't even deal; we consumed everything we touched before we could sell it.

We simply could no longer afford to use.  Sometimes the law intervened.

Most of us were brought down by a medley of financial physical, social, and spiritual problems.

When we found Cocaine Anonymous, we learned that cocaine addiction is a progressive disease, chronic and potentially fatal.  It fit our own experience when we heard that, contrary to popular myths about cocaine, it is possibly the most addictive substance known to man.  We were relieved to be told that addiction is not simply a moral problem, that it is a true disease over which the will alone is usually powerless.  All the same, each of us must take responsibility for our own recovery.  There is no secret, no magic.  We each have to quit and stay sober; but we don't have to do it alone!

We are a Fellowship of cocaine addicts who meet together to share our experience, strength, and hope for the purpose of staying sober and helping others achieve the same freedom.  Everything heard at our meetings is to be treated as confidential. There are no dues or fees of any kind. To be a member, you only have to want to quit, and show up. We also exchange phone numbers, and give and seek support from one another between meetings.

We are all on equal footing here. There are no professional therapists offering treatment, and no one "runs" the group.  Everyone in these rooms is here because he or she has a desire to stop using cocaine.  We are men and women of all ages, races, and social backgrounds, with the common bond of affliction. Our program, called the Twelve Steps of Recovery, is gratefully borrowed from Alcoholics Anonymous, whose more than 50 years of experience with substance abuse teaches us that the best human help an addict can receive is from another addict.  Some of us may first come to C.A.  while in a treatment program or seeking individual psychotherapy. We say, "Fine, do whatever works for you."

We don't pretend to have all the answers, but experience has taught us that a recovering addict will almost certainly relapse without the ongoing support of fellow addicts.

We welcome newcomers to C.A. with more genuine warmth and acceptance in our hearts than you can probably now imagine-for you are the life blood of our Program.  In great part, it is by carrying the message of recovery to others like ourselves that we keep our own sobriety.  We are all helping ourselves by helping each other.

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To the newcomer who wonders what is the first thing he or she must do to achieve sobriety, we say that you have already done the first thing:

You have admitted to yourself, and now to others, that you need help by the very act of coming to a meeting or seeking information about the C.A. program.

You are also, at this very moment, doing the next thing to stay straight:

You are not taking the next hit.

Ours is a one-day-at-a-time program.  We suggest that you not dwell on wanting to stay sober for the rest of your life, or for a year, or even a week.  Once you have decided you want to quit, let tomorrow take care of itself.  Just for today, you don't have to use.  But sometimes it is too much for us to project even one whole day drug-free.  That's okay.  Just for the next ten minutes, you don't have to use.  It's okay to want it, but you don't have to use it, just for ten minutes.  After ten minutes, see where you are.  You can repeat this simple process as often as necessary, using whatever span of time feels comfortable.  Just for today, you don't have to use!

In the C.A.  Fellowship, you are among recovering cocaine abusers who are living without drugs.  Make use of us!  Take phone numbers.  Between meetings, you may not be able to avoid contact with drugs and druggies.  Some of us had no sober friends at all when we first came in.  You have sober friends now!  When you begin to feel squirrelly, don't wait.  Give one of us a call; and don't be surprised if one of us calls you when we need help!

It may surprise you that we discourage the use of any mind-altering substances, including alcohol and marijuana.  It is the common experience of addicts in this and other programs that any drug use leads to relapse or substitute addiction.  If you're addicted to another substance, you'd better take care of it.  If you're not, then you don't need it, so why mess with it?  We urge you to heed this sound advice drawn from the bitter experience of other addicts.  Is it likely you're different?

We thought we were happiest with our cocaine, but we were not.  In C.A., we learn to live a new way of life.  We say that it is a spiritual but not a religious program—our spiritual values are accessible to the atheist as well as to the devout theist.  We who are grateful recovering cocaine addicts ask you to listen closely to our stories.  That is the main thing—listen!  We know where you're coming from, because we've been there ourselves.  Yet we are now living drug-free, not only that, but living happily; many of us, happier (than we have ever been before).

Few of us would trade all our years of addiction for the last six months or year of living the C.A.  program of sobriety.

No one says that it is easy to arrest addiction.  We had to give up old ways of thinking and behaving.  We had to be willing to change.  But we are doing it, gratefully, one day at a time